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About 20 years ago, Wheelock College brought in trainers to teach a noncredit course for early educators called “Making Room in the Circle,” which covered how to welcome LGBTQ families into early childhood settings.
Some 50 early educators enrolled – and so did Wheelock professor Ellie Friedland along with other Boston area faculty.

Ellie Friedland
“The idea was that Wheelock professors who took the course would then go on to teach a for-credit course for students,” Friedland says.
“One of the stories I like to tell is that when I proposed the course to the faculty at Wheelock College, there were no questions. Everyone immediately said, of course.”
Friedland doesn’t teach the class on her own.
“I’m straight and cisgender, so that’s something I use in various ways in my workshops. But I never teach the class alone; it has to be co-taught by someone who identifies as something other than straight.”
“What we found was that there were always students who took the course because they were already immersed and active. And there were students who took the course because they didn’t know anything and felt the responsibility to learn. And there were students who took it because they were questioning their own identities. And for all students it was vital to have a professor they could identify with and feel comfortable with.”
Today, Friedland is still a professor at Boston University Wheelock College of Education & Human Development, and she is still sharing the importance of welcoming LGBTQ+ families, teaching classes, running workshops, and talking to Strategies for Children’s 9:30 callers.
We asked Friedland what barriers early educators face in welcoming families.
Her answer: “Fear.” (more…)